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3 Part III: Life in Christ
Jesus came to give us life and give us life abundantly. What does this mean?
The Lord wants us to live a spirit filled life of meaning, purpose, and
joy, leading especially to eternal life. Our loving Father wants to
give you all good things—especially eternal life. When we live
according to Christ’s example, we will have abundant life in this world
and life forever in heaven.
If we copy his life, he will help us avoid sin and the works of
Satan, the evil one. Jesus told us
what was evil and how to know when we are being good. This section
discusses how we are to grow in holiness, in the example of Christ, and
then how to recognize how we fail.
3.1 Conform Our Lives to Christ
The gospels show us how Jesus lived. He was a model for us to follow.
Though he was perfect, he told us to try to be perfect as well. He gave
us the Holy Spirit to help us become more perfect. He showed us his
mercy so we can ask and receive forgiveness when we fail and to forgive
others as well. The sacraments help conform
our lives to Christ. When we are conforming our lives to Christ, we see a growth in virtue. These are
the fruits of the spirit and Jesus preached about these virtues in the
Beatitudes.
3.1.1 Great Commandment
Jesus taught us that the whole law is summed up as follows:
"You shall love the Lord, your God, with all your heart, with all your
being, with all your strength, and with all your mind, and your
neighbor as yourself." Luke 10:27
This is called the Great Commandment. This is clearly doing God’s will, to
love him above all else and to love all his children on earth. All of
the Law of God can be understood in this Great Commandment.
3.1.2 Virtues
Virtue is a gift from God that lets us live our lives as we are called
to do. God has given us various kinds of virtues. This section discusses them.
3.1.2.1 Theological Virtues
The Theological Virtues are gifts from God; these are as follows:
Faith |
the gift of belief in God, Father, Son and Holy Spirit and in his Holy Catholic Church |
Hope |
the desire for eternal life and the resulting joy to live our lives in conformance
to Christ, Jesus |
Charity (Love) |
Charity is the love of God and neighbor as defined in the Great Commandment |
3.1.2.2 Cardinal Virtues
The Cardinal Virtues are the primary human moral virtues from which the
all other moral virtues flow. These are as follows:
Prudence |
Knowing the right thing to do at the right time and the way to do it according to God's will. |
Justice |
Giving God and others what is rightfully theirs, all they deserve. |
Temperance
(self-control) |
Restraining our appetites to only what we need and not taking more than that. |
Fortitude |
Doing what is right in all cases, even when it is hard. |
3.1.2.3 Conquering Virtues
The conquering virtues are those that fight against the
Deadly sins. These are:
Humility, Chastity, Self-restraint, Generosity, Zeal,
Meekness and Charity. What do these mean? The table below defines them
and the related deadly sin in parenthesis.
Humility
(Pride) |
Understanding our selves and our relationship to Almighty God and realizing that we
depend on him for every good thing. All that we have is from him. |
Charity
(Envy) |
Habit of loving God for who he is and others for the sake of God. Our model
is the Trinity:
God the Father's love for the Son and the Holy Spirit. |
Self Restraint
(Gluttony) |
Using all of God’s worldly gifts in moderation. |
Generosity
(Greed)
|
Sharing God’s gifts to us with all his children. |
Zeal
(Sloth)
|
Doing God’s work joyfully. |
Meekness
(Wrath) |
Moderating our anger and desire for revenge. bearing wrongs with patience, humility and
charity, trusting in God’s providence |
Chastity
(Lust) |
Obeying God’s design for our sexuality. Using this gift only in marriage and as
God intends: to increase a married couple’s bond of love and to
procreate children with God. |
If we find ourselves growing in these traits, then we are probably
growing in God’s grace.
3.1.3 Fruits of the Spirit
Saint Paul tells us that we should look for fruits of the spiritual life. These are as follows:
Love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, generosity, faithfulness, gentleness,
and self-control. Gal 5:22-23
If we find ourselves growing in the Fruits of the Spirit, we will be much
less likely to fall into the deadly sins
listed below. These are signs that we are letting the
Gifts of the Holy Spirit (a grace of
Confirmation) be effective in us.
3.1.4 Beatitudes
In his sermon on the mount, Jesus taught the spiritual characteristics we should possess to gain the
Kingdom of Heaven.
These are called the Beatitudes. “Beatitude” means happy, blessed.
Blessed are the poor in spirit, for theirs is the kingdom of heaven.
Blessed are they who mourn, for they will be comforted.
Blessed are the meek, for they will inherit the land.
Blessed are they who hunger and thirst for righteousness, for they will be satisfied.
Blessed are the merciful, for they will be shown mercy.
Blessed are the clean of heart, for they will see God.
Blessed are the peacemakers, for they will be called children of God.
Blessed are they who are persecuted for the sake of righteousness, for theirs is the kingdom of
heaven. Mat 5:3-12
What do these words mean?
Poor in Spirit |
This is humility. We understand
our relationship to God. He is far above us and we always need him. We
bow down, always, before him whom we depend on for everything. |
Mourn |
This is compassion. We feel the pain of those who suffer and we try to help
them, especially those who have lost a loved one to death. To be sorry for our sinfulness. |
Meek |
This is the virtue of meekness. To control our
anger and to bear wrongs with patience, humility and charity |
Righteousness |
This is doing God’s will in all things. |
Mercy |
This is being kind to others beyond what they deserve. God rewards us for
this kindness by giving us mercy beyond what we deserve. |
Clean of Heart |
This is freedom from sin, especially the
mortal sins. If we are free from
these sins when we die, then we will see God in
heaven. But even now,
if we are free of these sins we will see God in others. |
Peacemaker |
This means our hearts should be at peace. We should speak truth (about God)
in a loving way. We should take unkindness toward us without
complaining or becoming bitter, because of our hope in
heaven. We should pray for healing between others. |
Persecuted |
We should be true to Jesus, to God. We should suffer persecution
in the name of the Lord with patience. |
3.2 Sin
Simply put, sin is a turning away from God. You must know you did something
against God's will and do it on purpose, without someone else making
you do it. Recall that
original sin was
the sin of Adam and Eve, going against God’s will, desiring
to be like God. This sin of pride is one that all humans (except Our Lord and the
Blessed Virgin Mary) have inherited.
Sin is a word, an act, or a desire contrary to God’s will for us. We offend
God and go against his love for us. It hurts the sinner and others,
especially the whole Church. Jesus’ death on the cross shows us the
seriousness of sin. He also revealed to us God’s mercy to forgive sin.
Sin can be venial or mortal. With any kind of sin, we should seek God's
forgiveness, especially by frequently taking advantage of
the Sacrament of Reconciliation.
3.2.1 What is Venial Sin?
Venial sins are a small turning away from God, like not doing your chores or
stealing cookies and the like. Since God is perfect, even the “minor”
flaw of venial sin is
horrible to God. When we ignore such sins, thinking them unimportant and
continuing to sin, we become more open to temptation to serious
sin. It weakens our friendship with God. Frequent use of
the Sacrament of Reconciliation will help us
stay away from this trap and build a strong friendship with God.
3.2.2 What is Mortal Sin?
A mortal sin is very serious. Mortal means deadly. It breaks our
friendship with God. We completely turn our back on God and reject him.
If you die after committing a mortal sin that was not forgiven, you will be
forever separated from God. This separation is
hell.
Upon death, the punishment of mortal sin is eternal separation from God and all Goodness
For a sin to be a mortal sin, the following three things must all be true:
- The word, act, or desire is a serious thing
- You must know that the sin isserious
- You decide on your own to do the sin (no one makes you do it)
Because we are made in God’s image and have free will, we can choose to commit
a mortal sin. If you commit a mortal sin, it is very, very important to
ask for God’s forgiveness as soon as possible, especially by using the
sure means of forgiveness, the Sacrament of Reconciliation.
Jesus told us that all sins can be forgiven and he gave us this Sacrament. So
never doubt that you can be forgiven, even when you think you have done
something terrible. God wants you to ask for forgiveness, for you to
repent and to forgive you. God always
waits for us to come back to him.
3.2.3 What is Temporal Punishment (Purgatory)?
When we hurt someone (say we steal from a friend), even after they forgive
us, we still need to give back what we have taken or make amends in
some other way. Temporal punishment is like this. God has forgiven us
of our sin, but we still have to make amends for what we did. In the
spiritual world, this is called purification. This purification can be
done in this life by the good works that we do and prayers that we say,
both out of our love for God. If we die before we are purified, we are
purified in Purgatory. Paul talks about this purification:
The work of each will come to light, for the Day will disclose it. It will
be revealed with fire, and the fire (itself) will test the quality of
each one's work. If the work stands that someone built upon the
foundation, that person will receive a wage. But if someone's
work is burned up, that one will suffer loss; the person will be saved,
but only as through fire. 1 Cor 3:13-15
The Day referred to, is our judgment day, when we die and come face to face with Jesus.
3.3 How Do We Know the Matter is Serious?
How does someone know that the matter is serious? The Church has many
teachings about what is sinful. A good place to start is in
the Bible.
See Deut 5 and Gal 5:19-21. The Church also guides us in its
precepts.
3.3.1 Ten Commandments (Deut 5)
God made a covenant with the Jews after he led them out of Egypt. He told
them that they would be his people and that he would be their God. They
needed to follow some simple rules. These are called the Ten
Commandments. We should obey God’s rules if we love him and these rules
are good for us. The first three teach us about relating to God. The last seven
teach us how to relate to other people. We will briefly discuss what these commandments mean:
- I am the Lord, your God. You shall have no false gods before me.
God must be the most important person in your life. There is only one God
and we should not make any person, place, job or any other thing more
important than God. God loved us first, we should love him above all things.
- You shall not use the Lord’s Name in vain. Use
God’s name with reverence, love and respect, such as when praying. God revealed his holy
name to us, so we can have a special relationship with him. Don’t use
God’s name or Jesus’ name when you are cussing or angry. Imagine using
your mother’s name to cuss! Never do this with God’s or Jesus’ name!
- Remember to keep holy the Lord’s Day. God made a day for us to praise
and worship him. This is a day of rest from
work so that we can praise God and give time to our loved ones. Jesus
told us that the Sabbath was made for man, not man for the Sabbath.
- Honor your father and your mother. Obey
your parents and others in authority over you. Don’t back talk to them.
Parents should not overburden their kids. They should not make them
anxious. Those in authority should not “lord” it over those who
report to them.
- You shall not kill. Do not take any life unless there is a serious reason
to (such as they are going to kill you). Don’t kill someone’s
spirit by demeaning them, by gossiping and the like. Treat everyone, yourself included,
with respect.
- You shall not commit adultery. God made intimate relationships for marriage. Any sexual relations
outside of marriage are wrong.
- You shall not steal. Do not take things that do not belong to you and that you have
not paid for, from friends, relatives, stores or anywhere else. Instead of taking
from others, we should be generous.
- You shall not bear false witness against your neighbor.
Don’t lie. Don’t make things up about others and spread rumors to hurt
them or falsely protect or promote yourself.
- You shall not covet they neighbor’s wife. Be
happy with what God has given you. If you have a spouse, love them and
do not look beyond them. Jealousy will eat away at you and cause you to
commit serious sin.
- You shall not covet they neighbors’ goods. Be
happy with the goods that God has given you. Your life, your job, your
family, and all the things you have. God will provide for our needs. Jealousy is a serious sin.
3.3.2 Deadly Sins
There are seven categories of Sin, called Capital or Deadly Sin (mortal). These sins
are at the heart of other sins. The table below defines them with
the Conquering Virtue is in parenthesis.
Pride
(humility) |
Excessive love of one’s own excellence. We think we know what is best,
we can do better than God. This is the cause of many other sins.
Because of your belief in yourself, you withdraw your love and
obedience from God. It leads to other sins. This is the sin of Lucifer
and of Adam and Eve. |
Envy
(charity) |
Sadness at another’s good fortune, especially their grace from God, instead of
being happy for them. |
Gluttony
(self restraint) |
This is eating or drinking or doing too much of
anything, especially more than is required to satisfy you. |
Greed
(Generosity) |
This is an inordinate love of money and things. It is desiring more and
more, beyond what is required. |
Sloth
(zeal) |
This is being sad or distressed about the effort it takes to be good, to do God’s work. |
Wrath
(meekness) |
This is to desire vengeance upon one who does not deserve it or to a greater
extent than it is deserved. To hate others. |
Lust
(chastity) |
This is a sin against purity. Purity is obeying God’s teaching about the
proper use of sexual relations. Lust is disobedience to this. |
3.3.3 The Precepts of the Church
The Church also teaches five precepts, or laws, that we are to follow in
living our lives. While it is a serious matter to ignore these
precepts, it is better to think of them as the least we should do to
follow the Lord’s Great Commandment,
"You
shall love the Lord, your God, with all your heart, with all your
being, with all your strength, and with all your mind, and your
neighbor as yourself."
- Attend mass on Sundays and Holidays.
- Confess your sins at least once a year. This is true when you have committed
mortal sins, but good practice in any case.
- Receive the Holy Eucharist at least once during the Easter season.
- Obey the rules on fasting and abstinence. Fasting is defined as one
meal and two snacks that is less than one meal. Abstinence is defined
as not eating meat. Fasting is required on Ash Wednesday and Good
Friday for those between 18 and 60 years old. Abstinence is required on
Fridays during lent and Ash Wednesday for those over the age of 14.
- Contribute to the support of the Church.
3.4 Models for Us
Jesus came into our world to redeem us from our sins, but also to teach us
how to live according to God’s will. He is our best model of how to
love one another. Sometime it is hard to live like Jesus because he was
perfect. God has given us other models, through his love and the
Church. We have a great Communion of Saints, those who have gone before
us and now serve God in heaven. We can ask them to help us. They lived
imperfect lives but conformed their lives to Christ and now are in
heaven.
3.4.1 Mary
The angel greeted Mary by saying “
Hail, full of grace!” Mary was conceived
and born without having original sin. This is called the Immaculate
Conception. Because she would say yes to God, God gave her this special
grace. She said yes to God for her whole
life, always living according to his will. She was always without sin,
always full of grace. So we honor her just as the
Bible says:
“ For he has looked upon his handmaid's lowliness; behold, from now on
will all ages call me blessed. The Mighty One has done great things for
me, and holy is his name.” Lk 1:48-49
Mary said yes to God to become his mother, but more than this she said
yes immediately! Even Moses and the other prophets argued about
doing God’s work. Mary simply said:
"Behold, I am the handmaid of the Lord. May it be done to me according to your
word." Lk 1:38
Asking Mary to help us is a great way to pray. She is Jesus’ mother and he is
very close to her. Jesus gave Mary to us as our Mother when he was
dying on the cross. Also, the Bible tells us that Jesus listened to
Mary and honored her, as in the Wedding Feast at Cana. If we ask Mary
to help us with good things, she will ask her son, the Son of God, and
he will listen to her!
We should ask her to help us say YES to God!
3.4.2 Saints
We believe that all those who have died in God’s grace and have been
purified are in heaven.
God allows us to ask them to help us as well. It can be very helpful to
find a saint who struggled in his or her life like we do. After all,
saints were ordinary people like us who because they loved God so much
did extraordinary things. We can learn
from their lives how to live ours and we can pray to them to help us in
the same way with ours. Some examples of saints follow:
- St Peter, the apostle. Peter was a rough and tumble fisherman when
Jesus called him to be a fisher of men. He was the leader of the
apostles and proclaimed that
Jesus was the Son of God. Yet, He argued with the Lord over Jesus’
telling about how he must die. And he denied that he knew Jesus during
his Passion. Still, the Lord forgave him and he ended up being the
leader of the Church, the first Pope and a martyr, being crucified
upside down.
- St Paul persecuted the Christians – he held the cloaks of the persecutors while
they stoned St. Stephen to death! Jesus knocked him to the ground and
blinded him and Saul was converted and took the name Paul. Paul was hot tempered.
Nevertheless, he wrote much of the New Testament and also was a martyr
by being beheaded.
- Mary Magdalene was known to be a sinner. Some say she is the prostitute mentioned in
the Gospels, who cleaned Jesus’ feet with her hair. Yet Jesus forgave
her and she followed him everywhere even to his crucifixion and she was
one of the first to his tomb on Easter morning!
- St. Augustine was a pagan and a great sinner. He once said, “make me holy, but not
yet!” His mother, St. Monica , prayed for his conversion and he become
one of the fathers of the Church and helped us understand much of our
faith. A Church father is an early teacher of the faith who explains
our faith so that everyone can understand.
- St. Francis was a spoiled, pleasure loving child. He wanted a life of pleasure and
had no inclination to work in his father’s business. However, he
converted to Christ and against his father's wishes, decided to dedicate his life to
the Lord. He loved all God’s creatures, seeing the goodness of creation
in them and all of nature. He said, “Make me a channel of your peace”
He started the Franciscans and with St. Clare
also started a women’s order of Franciscans. He had the “stigmata”,
which are the wounds that Jesus had on the cross. These are wounds on
the head (from the crown of thorns), in his hands and feet (from the
nails) and in his side (from the spear piercing his side).
- St. Teresa of Lisieux, the Little Flower of Jesus
got permission from the Pope to enter the Carmel monastery at the age
of 15. Her growth in holiness was so astounding that her superior
ordered her to write a book,The Servant of God about her “little way
of doing small things for the glory of God.” She died at the age of 24
and is a Doctor of the Church. A doctor of the Church is one who
describes and teaches the faith of the Church so others can better understand it.
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